What to do if the guy in your life doesn't like sports

Recently I came across an article on rantsports.com which outlined 11 tips for getting your girlfriend to like sports.  I've been a sports fan since childhood; before I knew that girls weren't supposed to like sports, and before I knew that at some point I might think that boys exist for more than making mud pies with.  I never had to be convinced that sports were something to be enjoyed, but I do have brothers that have need convincing.  Go figure, right?  I have five brothers and only one is as into sports as I am (he's actually even more into them than me).  I thought maybe I could take these tips and use them for my bros that need converting.

11.  Read (his) mood:

You want him to be in a relaxed state of mind with few distractions or stressors present.  This will allow him to be open to learning and enjoying new things.

10.  Don't throw too much at (him) at once:

No one wants to feel like they need to take notes in order to enjoy a new hobby.  Once he's got the basics, you can explain the intricacies of a flea-flicker, or what exactly a zone defense is.

9.  Have alternate activities at the ready:

Games are often long, and sometimes there is more down-time than action, which can leave the novice spectator wishing they had ANYTHING else to hold their attention.  Have some fall-back activities ready, whether it's a book or magazine, or an electronic game, he'll be grateful for the alternatives.

8.  Cuddling and foot rubs:

This one needs no altering.  Cuddling and foot rubs make any activity better, and it's not just for women.  In my experience, men love physical intimacy as much as women do, and it can be a great incentive for helping a dude watch sports with you.

7.  Make it a party, cook for (him):

They say the easiest way to a man's heart is through his stomach.  If you can get a guy to watch a game with you, providing food will make it all the more enjoyable for him, and more likely to continue to watch sports with you.  Word of caution: depending on your skills in the kitchen he may always want you to cook for him.

6.  Tell him how sports bring people together:

If you haven't read my previous post (Yeah BYU!!!) already, this is the best time to do so.  This post outlines the best ways in which sports brings people together and creates lasting memories.

5.  Create good guys and bad guys:

Nothing clutches emotions quite like a good hero.  If there is something especially great about your team, or someone on your team, tell this to your guy.  Or, if there is something especially terrible about the opposing team or a member of that team, that will work equally as well.  Creating a good vs. evil scenario helps viewers quickly become invested in the game.

4.  Get (him) involved in a fantasy sports league or football pool:

Fantasy leagues are another great way to get to bring people together.  Participating on a fantasy team together allows the two of you to bond the way teammates do, and will allow him to feel more connected to the game.

3.  Sports movies:

Sports movies are a great introduction to the sport itself.  The behind-the-scenes information and story lines that make these movies so great build interest in the sport before the game begins.  Stay tuned for a list of my top ten all-time greatest sports movies.

2.  Get him hanging out with your game friends:

Getting him out with your friends will help him feel part of your circle.  Hopefully he'll also begin to bond with your friends which will make him more excited to get together for the game.

1.  Return the favor:

The greatest incentive for getting anyone to get involved with your interests and hobbies is the promise that you'll do the same for them.  Whatever your guy's hobbies include, if you put time and interest into them he'll be happy to do the same for you.

Rivalry Week

With rivalry week approaching quickly I'm looking forward to enjoying passion-filled, heart-racing, and adrenaline-pumping football.  But one thing I love almost as much as a good game, is preparing a great game-day menu.  My BYU Cougars played their rival in September, for which I prepared quite the smorgasbord.  I thought I'd share some of the highlights here for anyone else who loves game food as much as I do.

Somehow the evening took on an Italian flair, so we started with an array of anti-pasti dishes; meats, cheeses, tomatoes tossed in olive oil and fresh basil, sun-dried tomatoes, olives, pickled asparagus spears, roasted peppers, artichoke hearts, and breads to dip in olive oil and balsamic vinegar.  Most of these items were picked up at Costco, while the others were purchased at our local grocery store.

After the appetizers had been enjoyed sufficiently, we had fun creating personalized strombolis.  Unfortunately, we were having so much fun I forgot to snap a picture. :(  Using typical pizza ingredients, and dough purchased from the grocery store, everyone was able to make a stromboli filled with their favorite toppings.  While researching stromboli recipes, I found this one to be the most helpful.

To continue the Italian theme, Italian sodas were served as drinks.  I was adamantly opposed to using anything red during dinner, but most of the yummy-flavored syrups are red, so I caved just once.  We offered strawberry, raspberry, coconut, or any combination of the three as flavors for the drinks.  My mom thought using the small cups would make it feel more special, but it also made it much more of a pain to keep quenching everyone's thirst.  We used 10 oz cups although the recipe called for using 16 oz of fluids.  The modified recipe worked well, but next time I would prefer to use the larger cups.  These recipes are the best I was able to find.

Although it didn't fit the theme of the night, I came across this recipe and couldn't resist.  The original recipe calls for using jimmies, but I thought tinting shredded coconut would give a similar look but would taste a bit better.  My brother, though, doesn't like coconut and convinced me to use a different color of frosting for the end zones and to use regular sugar sprinkles.  I wanted to use blue colored gummies for BYU players and red colored gummies for Utah players, and I was lucky enough to find gummies called "Evil Twins", which come in a variety of colors.  I also wanted my players to be more active than the players shown on the original picture, so I arranged a Utah fumble forced by Kyle Van Noy and recovered by BYU.  The pocky stick goal posts suggested in the original recipe worked well, but they slipped off the tray when pulling them out of the freezer and broke on the ground so we decided to do without them.  

The one thing that helped me get over BYUs loss that night was this amazing Oreo pizza.  A few weeks before the game, my cousin told me about a pizza place by her house that serves Oreo pizza.  She had me at Oreo and I dragged her out that night to eat it.  After studying it thoroughly I figured I could probably re-create it home.  It wasn't quite the same, but it was pretty dang close.  To ensure I was on the right track, I searched for Oreo pizza recipes and found this one that confirmed my thought process and will hopefully help you if you decide to make it.  The one thing missing from this recipe is how to make the icing.  Those directions can be found here.

I hope this helps you when you're planning your game-day menus.  I know for my family the food is almost as important as the game itself.

Hoop Dreams

With the tip-off to the NBA regular-season games right around the corner, and my Utah Jazz opening their season against the Oklahoma City Thunder, I thought it would be a good time to talk about my hoop dream. Several months ago, out of the blue, I had a dream about Kevin Durant.  In my dream he was over at my house and we were playing some kind of NBA video game.  As we were about to start a new game we had to pick our teams, but before picking Kevin got up to get something to drink.  He told me to pick his team for him, and after asking him who he wanted all he said was, "Anybody but Westbrook."  I now have to laugh to myself every time I see Kevin Durant as if we now share some kind of inside joke.

Yeah BYU!!!

Sports have long been touted as ways for kids to develop a team mentality, learn hand-eye coordination, and build habits to promote healthy living among other things.  With my dad out of town this weekend, though, I realized something else sports do; they bring people together.

Watching sports together is one of my dad's and my favorite pastimes.  It's one of the only ways we bond anymore.  And when he's gone, the game just doesn't feel the same.  So after Brigham Young University won a big game, I didn't feel much like celebrating.  I turned the TV off and moved on to something else, then I got a text from my dad, "Yeah BYU!!!"

The game wasn't aired in Louisiana, but he saw the score scroll across the bottom of the screen and wanted to share his happiness with me.  This isn't the first time we've had to share post-game bliss from miles apart.  We try to text each other at the end of the game every time one of us is out of town, because we know the other was watching, alone.

I was also reminded of the other times I've used texting about sports to build rapport and strengthen relationships.  Last Sunday I texted a friend whose team got spanked.  The text simply read, "Mother effing Broncos."  She replied and our conversation ended with us deciding we will need to form a support group if we are going to get through the season.

Football talk has also helped build a new relationship with a former co-worker.  He consoles me when my team loses, and I celebrate with him when his team wins. :)  I cheer for the teams my friends like, and jokingly tease the friends whose teams are my team's rivals.

If you ask me, sports brings people together better than a dinner party, better than mani-pedis with the girls, and better than gossiping over Sunday morning brunch.

What do the NFL and Junk Food have in common?

Answer: Kristin Cavallari 

The reality-TV-star turned NFL-wife (Cavallari is the wife of Chicago Bears' hunky QB Jay Cutler) teamed up with Junk Food Clothing Co to create a line of NFL-inspired, totally cute, and fashion forward clothing which debuted on Sep. 10 during New York Fashion Week.

Here are some of my favorite designs:

(photos courtesy of the Style 360 facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/pages/STYLE360/134945339864047 and Tom Concordia)

Let me introduce myself...

...And I'm a female sports fan.  A girly one at that.  As much as I love watching and following professional sports of every kind, I love makeup, cooking, doing my nails, and following celebrity gossip.  With a few exceptions (my female fandom included) I'm quite the girly-girl.

I love to cook up extravagant menus for big game days, add my team's colors to my makeup on game days, and wear their colors proudly.  Unfortunately, the marketing big wigs haven't yet discovered the growing number of female fans out there and insist on using the term "shrink it and pink it" to cover their female market.

I don't know about you, but I don't know any teams out there who have bubblegum pink included in their team colors.  When I'm cheering for my team I want to be wearing their logo in the correct color scheme. 

For all the ladies out there with me, this blog is for you.  Or, if you're brushing up on sports facts and trivia to impress the hot guy sitting next to you at the bar, we've got your back!