11. Read (his) mood:
You want him to be in a relaxed state of mind with few distractions or stressors present. This will allow him to be open to learning and enjoying new things.
10. Don't throw too much at (him) at once:
No one wants to feel like they need to take notes in order to enjoy a new hobby. Once he's got the basics, you can explain the intricacies of a flea-flicker, or what exactly a zone defense is.
9. Have alternate activities at the ready:
Games are often long, and sometimes there is more down-time than action, which can leave the novice spectator wishing they had ANYTHING else to hold their attention. Have some fall-back activities ready, whether it's a book or magazine, or an electronic game, he'll be grateful for the alternatives.
8. Cuddling and foot rubs:
This one needs no altering. Cuddling and foot rubs make any activity better, and it's not just for women. In my experience, men love physical intimacy as much as women do, and it can be a great incentive for helping a dude watch sports with you.
7. Make it a party, cook for (him):
They say the easiest way to a man's heart is through his stomach. If you can get a guy to watch a game with you, providing food will make it all the more enjoyable for him, and more likely to continue to watch sports with you. Word of caution: depending on your skills in the kitchen he may always want you to cook for him.
6. Tell him how sports bring people together:
If you haven't read my previous post (Yeah BYU!!!) already, this is the best time to do so. This post outlines the best ways in which sports brings people together and creates lasting memories.
Nothing clutches emotions quite like a good hero. If there is something especially great about your team, or someone on your team, tell this to your guy. Or, if there is something especially terrible about the opposing team or a member of that team, that will work equally as well. Creating a good vs. evil scenario helps viewers quickly become invested in the game.
4. Get (him) involved in a fantasy sports league or football pool:
Fantasy leagues are another great way to get to bring people together. Participating on a fantasy team together allows the two of you to bond the way teammates do, and will allow him to feel more connected to the game.
3. Sports movies:
Sports movies are a great introduction to the sport itself. The behind-the-scenes information and story lines that make these movies so great build interest in the sport before the game begins. Stay tuned for a list of my top ten all-time greatest sports movies.
2. Get him hanging out with your game friends:
Getting him out with your friends will help him feel part of your circle. Hopefully he'll also begin to bond with your friends which will make him more excited to get together for the game.
1. Return the favor:
The greatest incentive for getting anyone to get involved with your interests and hobbies is the promise that you'll do the same for them. Whatever your guy's hobbies include, if you put time and interest into them he'll be happy to do the same for you.